Frequently asked questions

Can I Bring A Plus One?

The King and Queen have appointed certain knights and nobles for a plus one, which you will see attached to your specific online RSVP. Otherwise, under no circumstances will extra guests be allowed, as we'd like to keep this special ceremony intimate. Unwanted guests will be imprisoned by our guards.

Are my children allowed to the wedding?

As much as we adore children and babies, The King's Hand and the Court have decreed that this ceremony be an adult-only evening. Only the King and Queen's heirs to the throne are permitted. We apologize for any inconvenience and hope the prior notice allows those with children to plan ahead.

When do I have to RSVP by?

All knights and nobles must RSVP by ______,  so that the castle servants prepare properly. Otherwise, the guillotine for you and a curse upon your house for all the next generations.

Please visit the RSVP tab at the top of this page to click the RSVP link. It will take you to another site for RSVP's only.

Why is the RSVP site asking me for my dinner choice?

All the food will be freshly cooked within the castle the day of the ceremony, however, the servants need to purchase and prep the ingredients and their amounts beforehand. Therefore, we will need your dinner decision with your RSVP ahead of time. Thank you!

What time should I arrive to the venue?

Please aim to arrive at the venue by 3:00PM, to allot time for dropping your horses and carriages off. Ceremony will promptly begin at 3:30 PM. The Queen does not appreciate lateness...

Is there a hotel block for guests?

Yes, please visit the tab at the top of this page labeled "Accommodations" for more information and the hotel block link. 

Do you have a wedding registry?

Thank you so much for wondering! We do not have a gift registry, as we already have the household necessities we need and are saving for our dream home at this time.

Will there be a shuttle to/from the wedding vendue & hotel?

Pending...

Will there be an open bar?

Yes. Only the finest for the monarch and its knights, nobles, and maidens.

Is the ceremony at the same place as the reception? Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

Yes, both the ceremony and reception will be held at the Merion Tribute House.

The Queen and her handmaidens will make a final decision 24 hours prior to the ceremony, weather permitting. We are striving to have the ceremony outdoors, as the castle grounds are beautiful. Cocktail hour and reception will be indoors.

What should I wear? Is there a theme or certain colors?

You will be amongst a King and Queen for god's sake! Please wear your best formal wedding attire. Yes- that means no jeans and tshirts...The wedding theme is gothic medieval, Game of Thrones style. We would appreciate if you'd come dressed in formal black or deep vibrant jewel colors (examples below). The Queen is wearing traditional white and the King is wearing dark emerald greenPlease avoid these colors or it's off with your head!